Is she cheating: Ask her
The easiest way to know if you partner is cheating is to just ask them. Sounds silly, right? But you would be surprised at how many people will admit to cheating when they are provoked. If you think that your partner is cheating on you but you cannot find any proof on the matter, just sit them down and ask them. When I thought that my partner was cheating on me, I told them that I needed to talk to them about something, and I swear they already knew what it was. I told them that I felt as though we had grown distant in the past few weeks and I was almost certain that they were cheating on me. At first, they did not want to admit it, so I really had to push on the matter. In the end I told them that if they had cheated on me and really loved me, they could either tell me about it now or go on with lying, but that they wouldn’t have anyone to lie to anymore. Afterwards, my partner finally admitted to having an on-going affair in Leicester, and I broke things off with them.
How to know if they are cheating without asking them
If you want to know if they are cheating on you but do not want to ask them directly, you need to prepare yourself to sneak around. The best way to bust a cheater is to follow him around and see what they’re doing when they aren’t home. Since using your own car to follow your partner around isn’t a great idea, try asking a close friend who has a car if they’re willing to help you bust a cheater in the act.
Find out if she’s cheating — The sneaky way
When I wanted to find out whether or not my girlfriend was cheating on me, I knew that I had to do it the sneaky way. So I bought myself a GPS tracker, stuck it on her car, and waited to see what her next move was. After a couple days, my girlfriend told me that she was going to see her friend in Leicester, but then ended up driving to a complete part of town. That is when I knew for sure that she was cheating.
Go through her cellphone
Going through her cellphone is probably the easiest way to catch a cheater. All you really have to do is go through it when she’s sleeping or in the shower and then see who she is messaging. If she’s texting other men or sending pictures to men on SnapChat or Whatsapp, you’ll immediately know that she’s being unfaithful.
Look through her browser history
Another really simple way of finding out whether or not she is cheating on you is to look through her laptop. Next time she isn’t home, take her laptop and look through her browser history. If she’s been signing into online dating websites and chatting with other men, then you have your answer. If you’re still very much in love with your girlfriend and want to give her another chance, you can read our guide on that subject.